Wednesday, May 4, 2011

-.-'

I supposed to hang out with friends today.
but something came up and i had to cancel it.
-_-' *sedih bang.

Month left.
Before next semester.
I have to buy this and that.
-Flat for kuliyyah
-Watch . kan jam jatuh dan pecah -.-' sadis.

SATU jam try pakai tudung bawal se.mu.la.
Hailaa. serius susah.
UIA dah la saman menyaman antara kita , amalan mulia kalau pakai shawl bagai nie.
Kalau satu jam.
Alamatnye, kalau kelas pkul 8, pkul 6 dah kena bangun.

Mummy :)
We were at mcD.


My friend is married with someone. well she's 19 years old.
And then she often babble to me.
that.
' i dont like my in laws ' ' they are controlling me ' ' i have to do the chores at my in law's house '

come on lah dik.
dah kahwin kan. kau jugak yg gatal nak kahwin. before kahwin
' badai mendatang sanggup ku redah demi bersamamu '
sekrang? -.-'
seriously.
when you r married. thats mean you are married to his family too.
which mean you have to accept them.
His parents are your parents. His siblings are yours too.
Treat them like you treat your own family.
Dont make him choose between you and his family.
Syurga bawah tapak kaki ibu, dik. Kau nak suruh dye derhaka demi bini ke?
Doing some chores, i didnt see, whats wrong with it?
You are not married with a prince. You are married with a typical man.
Where he has his own family and you have to pleased them.

Kawan-kawan,

Kalau nak kahwin, fikirlah masak2.
Yes, i'm not married yet. too far to have a boyfie right now.
but this is the way that i see marriage.

Its not about just both of you. Its about two family, emerging to become one.

Your husband, treating your family like his.
and you, treating his family like your own family.

and when you go to your in law's house. dont act like a queen. or u'll be hated by his siblings.
* haha. aku ade kakak ipar, aku faham.tahu.dan fasih menjadi adik ipar.

Happiness wont last forever if you just being selfish .
Give and take, that will help.

:')
* err. nasihat dari seorang perempuan yang bakal menjadi isteri seorang lelaki enam tahun lagi.
InsyaAllah

4 comments:

Nini Hartini said...

alahaiii...berapa lama dia kawen? umur 19 mesti kawen x sampai setahun kot?? org mcm ni lah yg payah. sepatutnya dr awal dh bersedia menerima perubahan dlm kehidupan. lepas kawen mmg segalanya berubah. Owhh kalaulah kawan yatt tu kawan akak, confirm akk akn bantu dia. heeeee...kdg2 kita kena memahami apa mslh dia. tp kdg2 mslh rumahtangga org ni bahaya gak klu masuk campur. hehe

♫ ♥ farah ada ♫ ♥ said...

haha. naseb baek sy jenis x pakai shawl. tudung 3 saat jek. ekeke.

hmmm.
susahlah kalo die mcm tu.
awk nasihat la sket.
mcm awk ckp kt dlm post tu.
eheh.



lagi enam tahun?
weeweeet~

HARYANI said...

betul, if you want to marry someone, marry his/her family first :D

Herlisyatt said...

kak nini. HAHAH. xde keje nak masuk campur hal umah tgga org kak.

sy denga je ape yg dye cerita.

nasihat da bg. sm mcm ape yg sy tulis. terpulang laa pd dye :)

ada : hahaha. tu la pasal :( susah nak pakai dah...
da nasihat. jgn risauu. yes. enamm tahun :D

haryani : tahuuu xpee wak :)