I supposed to hang out with friends today.
but something came up and i had to cancel it.
-_-' *sedih bang.
Before next semester.
I have to buy this and that.
-Flat for kuliyyah
-Watch . kan jam jatuh dan pecah -.-' sadis.
SATU jam try pakai tudung bawal se.mu.la.
Hailaa. serius susah.
UIA dah la saman menyaman antara kita , amalan mulia kalau pakai shawl bagai nie.
Kalau satu jam.
Alamatnye, kalau kelas pkul 8, pkul 6 dah kena bangun.
We were at mcD.
My friend is married with someone. well she's 19 years old.
And then she often babble to me.
' i dont like my in laws ' ' they are controlling me ' ' i have to do the chores at my in law's house '
come on lah dik.
dah kahwin kan. kau jugak yg gatal nak kahwin. before kahwin
' badai mendatang sanggup ku redah demi bersamamu '
when you r married. thats mean you are married to his family too.
which mean you have to accept them.
His parents are your parents. His siblings are yours too.
Treat them like you treat your own family.
Dont make him choose between you and his family.
Syurga bawah tapak kaki ibu, dik. Kau nak suruh dye derhaka demi bini ke?
Doing some chores, i didnt see, whats wrong with it?
You are not married with a prince. You are married with a typical man.
Where he has his own family and you have to pleased them.
Kalau nak kahwin, fikirlah masak2.
Yes, i'm not married yet. too far to have a boyfie right now.
but this is the way that i see marriage.
Its not about just both of you. Its about two family, emerging to become one.
Your husband, treating your family like his.
and you, treating his family like your own family.
and when you go to your in law's house. dont act like a queen. or u'll be hated by his siblings.
* haha. aku ade kakak ipar, aku faham.tahu.dan fasih menjadi adik ipar.
Happiness wont last forever if you just being selfish .
Give and take, that will help.
* err. nasihat dari seorang perempuan yang bakal menjadi isteri seorang lelaki enam tahun lagi.